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    June 26

    A wise man once told when, "When you see a beautiful girl just remember that somewhere theres a guy sick of fucking her" Actually he wasnt so wise but what a true statement.

    I think I’ve been using the words Hot and Hottie too liberally.  To be honest this word should be a word reserved for latin girls or tanned white girls. You can't really call a deathly pale, too tits, no ass, no rhythm in bed Chinese girls "hot" .  It think a more appropriate term is "cute"...maybe even "beautiful"....but "hot" is not the right word to describe a Chinese girl.  The better looking girls in Shanghai are fashionable, YOUNG,  cute, girl next door, schoolgirl look to them.....like my current favorite.

     

    Sunday:

    I met of course at the Coffee Bean and she was with a guy....he looked like a photographer/artistic type and she look a model/ actress type.  She was very "cute" and giving me the staredown that Chinese girls do to indicate interest.  So when the dude went to get in line i followed him.  Just to be polite...I asked the guy if that was his girlfriend, he said no she was just a friend. So i asked if he would mind if I went over and introduced myself.  He said he would prefer I do that at another time....... obviously he was interested in her.  I found out later he had casted her in a commericial he was shooting and was "romancing" her.  It was a strange vibe....but I gave him my number and asked him to give to her...thinking theres no way this douche bag is going to give her my number. 

     

    Well this guy has alone restored a little bit of respect I have for Chinese men.  When she called a couple hours later...and of course told me she was curious just what type of guy would have the guts to make a bold move like I did.  To be honest I don’t think this particular situation I was bold at all.  But it has gotten to the point anything I see a “cute” girl now, I will make the approach.  we went to dinner in XTD that night.   To be honest if I had seen her standing instead of sitting I wouldn’t have approached. Shes not my type at all.  She is the whitest girl I’ve ever seen……I like them tanned.   I like tall girls she’s petite…just turned 18 years old 5’2 85 pounds and very pale. …..Sort of a Chinese Nicole Richie type.  Very well dressed in a Korean style and prob. the best personality that I’ve met.  Tuesday night we had sex for the first time.  We had dinner first and I had such a big hard on I started to pre-cum all over my pants.  She bled all night….wasnt a virgin but she was SO small and me Big (for an Asian)…I guess it was painful experience…..she could have sex for the next couple of days.  

     

     I have been with girls I consider more attractive in Shanghai but the men of Shanghai have definitely given her the top nod as the queen of the streets.  Of all the girls I’ve been in public with she get the most stares and attention.  Perhaps because she so young or fresh????  Chinese guys seem to like that……In the west we call them pedophiles.  She says she pretty popular because of a wonton commericial she was recently in.   Anyways she does have a sort of magnetic quality to her and I find myself spending more time with her than the other girls now.  I have not been using a condom which is not like me at all…..But she is tighter and wetter than all the 22-24 year olds I know.  And shes a dancer so she can move in bed.   This director guy calls her sometimes when shes at my place….he wants to take her to see Spiderman 3…how romantic??.  I actually encourage her to date him…she think hes disgusting….

     

    Funny thing happened recently….we were walking through the Grand Gateway mall and ran into a friend of hers.  Immediatey I knew this girl was my type…  They had done a photo shoot together for a magazine called Mina.   She was tall, curvy, well tanned and from what I hear a real flirt.  You could almost call her hot!!!....I hadn’t seen someone like her in Shanghai til now..  Just when I thought I could see myself with this girl for a while……something like this happened. 

     

    She really a good girl and I almost feel bad to lead her on.  She thinks I’m going to be the guy that takes her to the world of luxury.  I’m not sure how to explain to her what I am or how we wont have a future together.  But to be honest I am tired of hurting people……. I may be an asshole and very arrogant but I don’t like to keep hurting people.  I try never to lie to a girl but this girl I did tell her that I wanted to be with her and just her……  I kind of have feelings for this girl but then again feeling come and go very fast for someone like me.

    June 18

    Sin Tetas No Hay Paraiso---viva y trabaje en Cali y Medellin, Colombia

    Viví y trabajé en Colombia el año pasado.  Volví allí el mes pasado el las vacaciones.....i tuve que ver a mis chicas rica
    Pero soy cansado ahora así que escribiré sobre él la semana próxima

    Don't Hate the Player.....Hate the Game

    M1 

    From: "melodyhu33@yahoo.com.cn "

    Her text message to me unedited…Keep in mind I can’t read Chinese.....doesnt she know that by now?

    我想用中文告诉你不是一好的男人,但却是我有生以最好的生日物,今年
    生日我永生忘,因为你的出是彼此生命中的客,但我的意却非同
    ,我曾差那一点就上了的所作所对你厌恶到了点。我常常在想像
    这样的男人到底回上什么样的女人,什女人才能征服你懂爱吗抑或是

    的很深很深、、、、、

    One thing is certain, since the beginning of time women have always been attracted to assholes.  They just don’t respect the nice guy who showers them with money and gifts.  Women love guys who treat them like shit.  Now I don’t enjoy hurting people so through trial and errors in my life I prefer having relationships only with married women or those with serious boyfriends.  But being very well endowded (for an Asian not a black guy) and skillful in bed does have its drawbacks.  Sometimes you bang em’ too good and they mistake that momentary feeling of ecstasy for love.  While that moment and other meaningless words of sweet nothings may mean the world to them…..its all in a days work for a player. 

    Case study:  Melinda

    Early 20s, always dressed fashionably, you could say she’s one of the “IT Girls” of Shanghai nightlife, Rich HK boyfriend who has bought several nice apartments all over China (what a nice guy huh?), a student a major university in Shanghai, she doesn’t work so I am assuming it’s the nice guy boyfriend providing a nice living allowance, She considers herself a 10 and I’ve never heard her say that anyone is even comparable in looks to her.  She obviously a very confident girl….well that is until I broke that confidence.

     So my second day in town one of this one local clown/”playboy” takes me to the new club that just opened in Xintiendi.  So as soon as a walk in I see Melinda’s friend Cynthia who reminds me of an ex I had in NY.  So local clown is dying to meet Melinda but of course is too scared to make the approach (surprise right?)  So I go over may small talk and chit chat with this girl I have absolutely no interest in.  I do meet 2 other girls I am interested in including a 6 foot girl are Harbin who will be the subject of another post another day….Local clown is too scared to ask for their numbers so I get their number and call it a night.  So almost immediately I’m getting calls and text messages every day from this Melinda girl.  This is my one big pet peeve….dont call or text me…if I want to see you, I’ll call you.   Day 4 and 5 in Shanghai are spent fucking Harbin girl, a model (so she said)/student who lived with her boyfriend but was spending nights at my place.  I actually felt bad for this guy since he kept calling all night to find out where so was.  We go to Attica, come back to my place and fuck.  But I really do not like fucking girls who aren’t hygienic down below.  I don’t like THAT smell…I had to stop.  I preferred sleeping actually.

     But anyways this Melinda wouldn’t stop calling so one day I just told Harbin girl to answer the phone and tell her I’m not around.  Well she stopped calling for a day or two and then the text messages starting going again.  I figured I have to just fuck her and get it over.  I go over to her place and her hot friend from the nightclub was there…3 some? I told her I wouldn’t sleep with her unless her friend joined in.  This girl insisted I not use a condom….. That a big no no for me.  So anyways we bang for a little while and she tells me she been dreaming of me and she love me, at this point i'm thinking this bitch is crazy!!!  I’m get the fuck out of here and hoping I never see her again.  I let a month go by before I return her call or texts again.  American girls get it when you don’t return calls….Chinese don’t seem to get the message quite as clearly and want explanations on why you don’t like them.

     So I go to her birthday party at Muse go home with her but refuse to fuck this time… At this point I’m just total asshole.  I tell her the only way I stay with you tonight is if I cum in your mouth or your face, I’m not going to fuck you.   And she has this annoying entourage herself (sister, 2 Cynthias, 1 web bar owner) that seem to go everywhere she is.  They were sleeping at her place but I tell to kick them out or else I’m going home.  So I did my business and then I left….I was as arrogant I could possibly be hoping that the calls and the messages would stop at the point. 

    I’ve used this method plenty of times in plenty of countries….. It never works.  They just take the abuse and keep coming back for more.  The more attractive the girl the more insecure they are and the more they crave approval.    They certainly not used to people treating them like crap but for some reason it always turns them on.  Beautiful girls always feel like they have to win you over in over to regain that sense of entitlement.  Even if they don’t actually want you….they want to know it their choice. 

    Back to her….To be honest she is still the smartest girl I’ve met in China, shes a very talented writer and has the most going for her of anyone I’ve met in this country.  It does make you wonder why girls like her always fall for guys like me?????  I guess that’s the way it was, way it is and the way it will always be.  Her only crime was that she called me way too much….But she has very bright future as long as she stays away from guys like me.    In the aftermath of our little time together II thinks she a little more cynical of the worlds and I think I’ve created a monster….Even when I’m was with her she got calls and texts from guy all day…  Shes taken up my approach now.  to ignore or insult people now.  Oh...and i hear this local clown/"playboy" is still calling them trying to romance all 3 of the girls.

    She sent me this text message even though I can’t read Chinese.  I don’t know what it says but it doesn’t matter what it says.  Once I completely ignore a girl and cut her off I usually get a message like this shortly after.  I’ve gotten messages like this in English and Spanish in the past so this message I’m sure was no different.

      --Forwarded Message Attachment--
    Date: Sun, 15 Apr 2007 15:37:05 +0800
    From: melodyhu33@yahoo.com.cn
    Subject: 转发:melody
    To: mikelo77@yahoo.com

     


    Hey what's the matter with you? why you sent e-mail to
    John to tell him about us? what's the benefit to you?
    do you know how to respect people? yes, i admit i
    really like you and i had sex with you easily(which is
    nothing wrong with people have sex with somebody they
    really like at the first time), but that not means i
    can have sex with any man easilly. actrually i don't
    care what others think about me although you told
    them that i'm a bad girl and easy to get bed(i really
    don't think gentleman should do this). i thought you
    are a cool and smart guy,now i know i was totally
    wrong. i'm so disappoint at you.i'll never ever
    contact with both you and john which is the result you
    happy with.


    This John (j.aryananda@synergyca.com)  is a real pussy!!! Falling in love with a hoe. I came in her mouth in XTD

    June 17

    Come on....your a model? Why aren't you in Milan...I'm a regular there, never seen you before.

    VIBEVibe2So in the late 1990s I’m a university student when I get the call from my boy Garrick.  Garrick was a natural and born with “IT”.  That “IT” quality got him discovered as a model and actor in his teens and had him doing a national TV commercial for Macy’s.  That commercial got the attentions of all the major agencies in NYC and Milan.  Fast forward a few year and hes doing movies in Italy and Cape Town,  and is the star of the hit show “Ciao Darwin”.  He was so big in Italy he was getting paid 5k usd/night to show up and party at nightclubs all over the Italy.  So that’s when he calls his boys in the US to come hang out in Italy as part of his entourage. 

    For those of you who are not familiar with what entourage members do.  The job of entourage members is to simply fuck the star's groupies.........AND THAT ALL I DID FOR THE NEXT YEAR.  PARTY AND FUCK. 

    So the plan was to take 1 semester or 4 month off to party in Milan.  The problem was Garrick’s show was as popular in Italy as American Idol and he was the Ryan Seacrest of Italy so everywhere we go he would have a crowd of groupies following him around.  4 months turned into 1 year very quickly.  From fucking models in Hollywood or Shocking nightclub in Milan to local girls……we traveled all over the country from Milan to Florence, Turin, Naples (hottest girls in Italy), to Rome fucking Italian locals all over the country.  Threesomes, foursomes, Orgies….its was all just another night in Italy.  You can see how 4 months can turn into a year very quickly.  My parents we getting very nervous I would drop of out school for good and never come home.  Don’t think it never crossed my mind. 

    Up to that point in my life I had been fooled by my parents into thinking it was normal to have just a girlfriend...with maybe a girl or two friends with benefits on the side.  Before I went to Italy my grandfather who was a movie producer in Taiwan and know all about "the scene" had warned me about these types of people (The Star, The Entourage, The Groupie , The Hanger-ons) and their lifestyle.  Well I can tell you they were all wrong!!! I was lied to my entire youth.   This is the only fucking way to live!!!!   Its absolutely unnatural to have a monogoumous relationship and not fuck every hot piece of ass you see. 

    btw.....Italians are the hottest of all the white girls!!! This country is also very well suited to local Chinese men for the following reason..  Even walking the street alone, i was approached by more girls than I approached.  So you men will not have to worry about approach anxiety....if they like you they will approach you first.  And these girls have the fire and charm of latinas.  Its obvious why I still love going to Milan.  Again.....I'm not sure why I'm recommending Milan to you guys ....most of you dont have the money or the visa to ever get there.  Once your there you prob. wont get laid anyways......

    Garrick now in Hollywood, CA and is a regular on a soap opera.  Once he starts shinning in the US market you’ll seeing more of me in LA LA land.  My other boy B. Web, who  I met as part of the entourage once the runway show season moved to NY, is also really starting to do well in the industry as well.  I think in 2 year i'm ready to move to LA fulltime.

    http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2072987/

    http://justjared.buzznet.com/gallery/photos.php?yr=2006&mon=04&evt=brent_weber_csi&pic=brent-weber-csi05.jpg

    We still go to Milan and party at least twice a year, Derek is still the man there.  Be sure to check out Hollywood and Shocking nightclubs to fuck model …….let me be honest again...you local Chinese people are not jet setters,  you’ll never party in Italy and the only way you fuck a hottie is in your sleep…Female models outnumber male models by almost a 10:1 ratio there.... Its a beautiful place.  

     Anyway a couple years ago at Shocking I was asked to shoot an editorial campaign for a popular magazine.  When they told me the female model in the shoot……at that point it was hard to refuse.  I’ve fucked a lot of Russian models, Italian models, American model, French models, and Eastern European model in Milan but I never fucked a Brazilian model before so once I met her it was impossible to refuse…… plus these model shoots are all day dates.

    This is her profile:     http://www.elitemodel.com.br/em_detail.php?id=79

    This is her on a photo shoot in Brazil:

    http://gallery.brazilian-bikinis.net/makingof2005

     We went out that night to Shocking, and if she came alone I would have fucked her but she brought her good friend which ended up really good for me….. I ended up hooking up with her friend Fabiana and have been to Rio many times to see her….but that’s another story for another day.

    To be honest I thought Andrea would make Victoria secrets by now ….she definitely has the goods and the personality.  Both me and her friend she introduced to me that night have lost touch with Andrea who live in Sao Paolo now ..... But according to this article, she has given birth to Brazilian soccer legend Romario’s child. 

     http://www.brazzil.com/content/view/9110/

    That’s disgusting!!! I mean hes a good soccer player but hes kind of ugly!!!  Really FUGLY .  I've posted some of her pictures below as well as a pic i took from the hotel I stayed at in Rio when i visited Fabiana.  The view is amazing

    Why talk about my life in Milan…..because I know the difference between a real model and some girl who just wants to be a model.  Why does every girl in China tell me shes a model???  Come on…..i’ve fucked plenty of them.  You won’t make it in Milan…..I'd say give up the dream and save 5 years of your life   If your not an established name by 23---Retire....your done....or segway into acting.  Go spin your wheels there for a few years.  I think you have to be published by 25... 

     

     

     

    June 15

    Where the true players at??

    I had a local guy tell me what a big playboy he is and hes slept with over 100 girls....But he also asked me advise on what to say to a girl when she went back to his apt. Doesnt make sense does it???  Until you realize that 99% of the girls he slept with are prostitutes.  Look local men....having sex with prostitutes or KTV girls does not make you a player!!!   
     
    Player rules: You cannot tell people you've slept with 100 girls if 99 of the girls are prostitutes.  You can only say you've slept with 1 girl.  Your not a player and you should also really get an AIDS test done ASAP. 
     
    ALso if you "sponsor" multiple girls....does doesnt make you a player either....Ok so you have money and like to show off the fact you have money but that doesnt make you player.  Most local "players" fall into either of these categories.  They lack true game so they use money to get laid.  But I must tell you I am fucking these girls your sponsoring.  One in particular I will talk about some other time. 
     
    I know this "player" in Shanghai who has fallen in love with one of the girls I'm fucking.  So he tells her to stay away from me because I'm a bad person.  He tells her I'm annoyed that she calls me all the time and I'm sick of being around her.  He also tells her he really likes her and would accept her despite the fact that she "gave me a blowjob in the bathroom of Coffee Bean in Xintiendi".  WOW!!!! Chinese "players" are quite disappointing
     
    Let me just say that I never talk about other men....other men don't exisit to me...I would never try to bring down another man to increase my own value a girl. If a man truely has "game" he will get laid.  To talk negatively about another man shows insecurity in oneself....  Most intelligent women will realize that........ This girl I must admit is quite smart....Actually the smartest girl I've met in Shanghai to tell you the truth.  She wrote me this email in her bad English to show her disapointment with me....  I'm still in contact with her but have not fucked her recently...The reasons i'll tell you another day..
     
     
    Her Email to Me unedited:
    "Hey what's the matter with you? why you sent e-mail to
    John to tell him about us? what's the benefit to you?
    do you know how to respect people? yes,  i admit i
    really like you and i had sex with you easily(which is
    nothing wrong with people have sex with somebody they
    really like at the first time), but that not means i
    can have sex with any man easilly. actrually i don't
    care what others  think about me although you told
    them that i'm a bad girl and easy to get bed(i really
    don't think gentleman should do this). i thought you
    are a cool and smart guy,now i know i was totally
    wrong. i'm so disappoint at you.i'll never ever
    contact with both you and john which is the result you
    happy with."

    June 10

    How to Pick Up a Chick....

    I will give insight on what has worked for me and a "student" of mine. The Last 4 days i approached roughly 20 hotties at Coffee Bean at XTD with the same canned line i use in Starbucks all over the NYC and LA. "I'm ___, I would love to get to know you but I'm with a female friend right now so its not convienient to to chat. Here my number if your interested give me a call."

    This approach works best with mega hotties because they are the loneliest. Most of these types are so hot that 99% of the local guys would never approach them for fear of rejection. Lets be honest there are a lack of Alpha males amoung the locals in this country and any asian with balls can easily rise to the top of the Shanghai food chain. Or they had a rich boyfriend too old to bang them.

    Over half the girls I've approached called mostly saying something to the effect of this being the first time that a Chinese guy had the balls to approach them in the daytime. Most wanted to meet me just out of curiosity to find out what kind of guy would do something so un-chinese. When we meet I flip the scrip on them and make me the prize and tell me "Obviously a guy like me has the balls to meet the most beautiful girls in this city so I have a ton of options, tell me 3 reasons why outside of your beauty i should be interested in you. Then Proceed to read their eye movements to tell them what type of personality type they have.,,, Cube visualization game, ect... This will have their heads spining... I have never met a local with any game at all and my guess is that that guy doesnt exist so by now you should be able to close or at least move to date two.

    Anyways I have fucked two new girls in the last 4 days including an 18 year old commercial actress/student at the Shanghai Theatre Academy. Obviously it take more approaches in the US for those trying there. So power is this technique i taught a local who never approached any girls in daylight before these same lines and from 7 approaches hes already had 3 callback. It did take 2 hours of me insulting his manhood to insulting all local men's manhold for him to make his first approach, but it worked. This guy is by no means an alpha male, good looking or rich so this is a loser proof method.

    So there is the approach and the first date in a nutshell...This success has pretty much let me know i can bang just about any girl in this country.....I'm not kidding. I feel like any coffee shop i go to in the city, all eyes are on me. I know i can bang everyone in the room and they know it too. Success does breed some cockiness.  Its funny I never even considered steping foot into XTD until Melinda introduced me to the Coffee Bean.  But now I dont have time to see her anymore because of this place. 
    June 09

    Preselection...

    THis girl is very good looking.  I was out with one of my girls Melinda the night before and she invited her friend Amanda who has just arrived in Shanghai from Chongqing. She was so charming, witty and engaging that night that I had secretly arranged to meet her the next day for coffee at my usual XTD location with the plan of fucking her later that evening.  I also promised to introduce her to a director of commercials and plenty of potential rich boyfriends but not before I fucked her first. Although I was certain she would be off the market within a week just based on her looks. 
     
    Well I must have been really really drunk that night or maybe she was because the next day her looks didnt change but her whole attitude changed.  So she told me her pathetic story about how she moved to Shanghai for a job and was fired within a week.  Now she was desperate to find another job, desperate to find a rich boyfriend or just a man who might "sponsor her".  What happened to the swagger from the night before?  What happened to the attitude? The confidence??  I guess it was all a front for her insecurity....which was a huge turnoff for me.  While we were talking 2 very cute and very young girls circle around and sit directly in front of us. There is something about being around with a hot girl that makes other hot girl curious about the man shes with.  Now that I was completely uninterested in fucking Amanda I turned eye towards the hot well dressed Shanghainese hottie.  I asked Amanda is she could go inside and get me a coffee, and while she was in line.  I slipped the hotties my number.  I used the line in Chinese of course, " I'd love to get to know you but I'm with a girlfriend at the moment.  This is my number, if your interested give me a call.  Is it the charm? Is it the confidence or the fact hot girls know I fuck alot of other hot girls? I told Amanda I had to leave to attend to some business and she asked if we could meet later that night.  Its been a while since shes been fucked and obviously she needed some......Sorry..busy that night
     
    But this is how preselection works: Hot girls like to know that the guy in question has already been selected by other hot girls as having those "IT" qualities...whether it be money, looks, well endowed, , good personality, humour, skills in bed, confidence,ect....  This way they dont have to waste their breath or time on some guy that does not have what they are looking for.  Thats why its always easier to pick up a hot girl when you are with another hot girl. 
     
    In any case I met the Shanghainese hottie later that night at the Taiwainese restuarant in XTD and fucked her later that night.  The one upstairs....great dumplings
     
    This was a few months ago.... Amanda called me recently and we met again at Coffee Bean.  Honestly I was going to fuck her this time and put tape around her mouth so she couldnt talk.  But when i went in to give her a kiss, there was blood on lips.....damn, how much does chap stick cost in this country???  There goes the hard on......      
     
     I saw another hottie sitting with a friend and when Amanda went to the bathroom I slipped her my number with the same line.  That was the last time I saw Amanda.....Shes been a great pawn for me to meet other girls with but I just dont want to be around girls I dont want to fuck......She texted me recently saying she wanted to have a 3 some with me and a girl she saw me with at Plaza 66.....but theres no reason to return that message is there.  Her stock has fallen faster than Enron.....It wouldnt surprise me to see her eventually marry a fat overweight 60 year old American.
    June 06

    I'm the Biggest Player in Shanghai

    It has come to my attention that i am the biggest player in Shanghai....so i am starting a blog of my sexual conquests from coffee shops all over the city.  I've always been a player from a young age but never have i been this lethal.  I have only been here for a short time but i am definately the undisputed biggest player in the city.  Not that this is a difficult task in China, Look around....there are no local "ALPHA MALES"  So its easy for a guy like me to stand out in the crowd.

    My second night in Shanghai I went to G+ club in Xintiendi.  I only approached 3 girls that night  and I fucked all 3 within a week....I guess that is when i knew I had "IT" in this country.  I have had "IT" in every country and really i didnt expect to have any issues in China.  I just didnt expect the local men to all be such cowards and losers, thus making my job so much easier

    .... it has come to the point where a very poplular Shanghai playboy, a Hong Kong actor and a Shanghainese commericial director all are trying to bring me down.  When people with serious clout are trying to bring you down, you know your an important person in this city!!!  But why would a player try to bring other players down you ask???  Because local player and local men in general are more like women than men.  You cannot expect a local man to behavior like man ...... they act like women here.  They love to gossip to women thing you said about them.....    Now what kind of self respecting player gossips to women????  Thats weak right??

    'm going to retrace the past few months and talk about where and how I pick up hotties in Shanghai.  This is different from other blogs because i dont fuck prostitutes and brag about that.  There is nothing special about picking up a pro....  But I will explain how i've picked up married girls when they are with their husbands,  as well as my conquests of models, students, and actresses all over the city.  I've not going in chronological order but rather whatever pops into my mind at the current time.  I'm writing because of popular demand to share how the hell I could come to Shanghai and fuck more than 99.9% of the local guys....without paying for sex. 

    Well I am a pro...so stay turned and see how I've terrorized woman in Starbucks and Coffee Beans all over the city..  And yes i have had sex in the Coffee Bean in Xintiendi....In fact this is one of my favorite places to both pick up and fuck girls.  Dont worry......if your ugly i wont ever look at you once.

    ....To protect the embarrasment of some of these girls....names will be altered... You see i am a Nice Guy!!!!